If he drives an expensive car, but rents an apartment — RED FLAG.3. If your man wears more than one ring per hand, more than one bracelet per wrist, and more than one necklace per neck — RED FLAG.5.
I've read many messages on here with women being in my shoes with practically the same problem. He talked about marriage first, kids first, told me I was his best friend. I'm not the type of woman that's get mad at the mistress, I get mad at the man. It would make sense to be angry at the man because there are two types of mistresses: the type who knows that she's taking part in an affair and the type who doesn't know that she's the other woman. Investigation is probably more formal, so I'd figure you'd want to beef up on the paperwork by researching how to advertise your services, knowing the different methods to use in catching your targets, etc. ) screaming, pushing, shoving, threatening to punch.
If your man is constantly spending money on you without regard to price (i.e., clothes, trips, jewelry) and he can’t afford it — RED FLAG.7.
If your man constantly asks to “hold” some money or expect you to pay while on dates — RED FLAG.8.
Granted, I’d have to give the brother an “A” for style and originality, but when I said to her, “Wow, he must be paid! He’s living with his mother right now, but he just really likes me.” All I could think was, 'This fool must have fallen and bumped her head.
I understand it may have been a flattering gesture, but don’t reward a man with attention and praise for foolishness.' Now, if he has no problem affording lavish gifts, that’s another story.
I was the 28 yr old women so in love that I had blinded myself to these red flags and he didn't have to have an excuse for anything because I made them for him. Now, I'm not a stalker or a person who "checks up" on their man. I got lies after lies when questioned about it the next day. All these shady things he did before, now I know why. The house was so dilapidated (in my price range) and b/c my boyfriend is a master contractor, he's basically getting free room and board for his labour on the place.