They are all hurt by men in the past lying to them and they are scared to give themselves blah blah blah. You've got to respect the fact that society expects us to make the first move and make it easy for us. It is totally up to him to use it, and follow through by asking her out afterwards-- if he wants to.
My sincere apologies to girls that get short-changed as a result of showing too much interest. So, advice from a guy: It's definitely a good idea to give us some kind of "in" to starting a conversation with you. People who are calling P 'evil' and 'manipulative' are crazy. We all know how hard it is break the ice, well she is masterfully giving the guy who has caught her eye the perfect icebreaker.
There is one way more efective for beautiful women: be blunt and make the aproach.
Telling them I am poly then watching them tell you they are cool with it then months or YEARS later They are not. There is no such thing as the "Law of Attraction" and flowing energy.
What P has so intelligently figured out are subtly ways to reduce or eliminate the risk for the male, allowing him to pursue and her to receive the his attention. Thank you for letting us into your little made up bubble world. Or one that doesn't and you lose many years living an average couple lifestyle where the daily routine takes centre stage and you prolly gonna get later find out that it has a used by date after all and shes banging a guy from work?
Attracting someone should be a little more subtle, she says. For most of us regular lady folk, we're gonna need to do a little more than put ourselves in a guys visual field and wait for him to hit on us.
In other words, don't make it seem like you're flirting. Right now I am laying next to a beautiful tiny girl. I can't even be bothered putting down my phone and giving her one.. Basically, what I'm saying is, for women who are less than a 9, this article is completely useless.
It was her intuition that helped facilitate these serendipitous scenarios, she says. She tells me: What I'm about to tell you is the most effective flirting technique of all. When I think of the times people have really looked into my eyes, I have felt a certain closeness with them. Follow me on Twitter: @thisjenkim Want to know when I write a new post? I'm a girl who can always get a date when I want, and I definitely agree with the eyes thing, that trick works like a charm.