Finding a good vanilla woman is difficult, but it's nothing compared to trying to find a Domme.
Those who don’t have any kink experience are not going to know what they want or if a power exchange relationship is right for them.
Submissives make a lot of mistakes when trying to find a Domme.
The biggest is having a narrative in their head of what a dominant woman should be.
There are basically two places to look: online and in real life.
Many vanilla dating sites have a way to filter for kinky people.
If you are dating a vanilla woman or someone new to kink and are not sure if they are interested in dominating you, the only way to find out is to ask.