So, before you can get your ex back you have to understand the real reasons that caused her to lose love and attraction for you.
By understanding the true cause of her unhappiness, you can then change those exact things and become the type of man she really wishes you would be. A common mistake that guys make is when they realize what they did wrong in a relationship, they then rush to get in touch with their ex and make promises to change if she comes back.
At the meet up, you can then get her respect back, make her feel more attraction and move towards a hug, kiss, sex and then begin seeing each other again.
If you want to learn what to say and do at each step of that process, I recommend that you watch my awesome, proven to work program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System Although getting her back might seem impossible to you right now because she is is already dating someone else, if you are prepared to do what it takes, it is entirely possible to get her to dump her new boyfriend and come back to you.
The first question that you really have to ask yourself is, “Why do I care that my ex is already dating someone else?
” Is it because your confidence with women has taken a hit and you’re feeling a hurt that she has been able to get over you so quickly?
For example: If a man continues to neglect his woman or place her needs last or close to last, she will eventually get tired of being treated that way.
Some women will put up with that if a guy is very attractive and appealing in other ways, but most women can’t stand being treated like that forever.
You can do whatever you want, but have a think about why you’re ready doing it.When you contact her and see her in person, she will be able to pick up on the fact that you really have changed in the ways that are the most important to her. Saying, is only going to push her closer to the guy she is now dating.By telling her you WILL change you’re showing her that you still haven’t fully understood her needs and now that she’s already got a new man who is, at least for the moment, giving her what she needs, why should she give up the ‘sure thing” for a promise that might never be kept?If, on the other hand, you put in some effort to fix your issues (e.g.insecurity, commitment issues, neediness, etc) before you contact her, you will be making it easier for her to connect with the old feelings of love and respect that she once had for you. These days, a lot of guys waste too much time and energy hiding behind text messages to women.The new guy she is dating might make her feel excited and happy for a while, but if he lacks the fundamental attractive qualities that women look for in a long term companion, she’s going to gradually lose interest in him.