Opinion on men dating very young women

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Most people assume that there must be something wrong with men who stay in relationships with women who have traits of borderline personality disorder, men who know the right move is to leave but who find themselves unable to let go.

Her fear of betrayal may be overwhelming, but it is no match for her obsessive desire for romantic love.Although the nice-guy/borderline union in theory should work, in reality it is guaranteed to fail. Either the nice-guy type will finally have a momentary lapse of selfishness, which she will experience as a major betrayal, or she will become so overwhelmed by her suspicious nature that that she will convince herself that he has betrayed her.Either way, without an ironclad guarantee that she cannot be hurt, she will be unwilling to trust him again.The romantic partner of the woman with traits of BPD will soon find that although she demands complete adherence to the relationship rules from him, she is incapable of holding up her own end of the bargain.Many nice-guy types are willing to accept these flaws.This personality type truly enjoys giving and often find they need nothing more in return than a feeling of being appreciated.

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