But willfully ignoring warning signs along the road is stupid. Remember playing “Red Light, Green Light” as a kid? Every once in awhile, “yellow light” was shouted and everyone had to proceed with caution.Looking back at some of the stunts I pulled and situations I got myself in, I’m ashamed. Everything mimicked the traffic rules adults were supposed to abide by.Yet when we see something in our date that doesn’t line up with our ideal, we quickly dub it a “red flag” or a “deal-breaker.” It could be a moral failing, a complicated past, an annoying quirk or even just an issue of “compatibility.” But which of these are really deal-breakers? Yet there are real red flags to watch out for, and God outlines a few of these in the Bible.
However, pushing the broom behind the bejeweled elephant in the room eventually becomes tiresome. Beware of women who view you as their own personal bank. You do not want to be a starter husband or be with a woman who would use this appalling phrase. Study the divorce and custody laws and statistics in your state before you even consider getting married. Did you know that women comprise 82.6% of primary custodial parents? She specializes in helping men and women trying to break free of an abusive relationship, cope with the stress of an abusive relationship or heal from an abusive relationship.People will give you warning signs about their true natures very early on — all you need do is heed their warnings. Beware of princess and other royal pains in the ass like drama queens. Sometimes cutting abusive family members out of your life is actually a sign of good mental health. This is a con artist’s technique called, mirroring—”using flattering statements to lift a listener’s confidence in himself.” It takes time to really get to know someone and build trust.When a woman fancies herself royalty, it denotes a level of entitlement, one-sided-ness and probably an incredible lack of empathy. “Instant intimacy” is typically a sign that someone’s stroking your ego into submission and/or that they neither possess nor respect personal boundaries.At the 8 year mark, you’re earning a good level of income, the kids are in school and she’s willingly let her job skills and resume molder. She decides she’s bored and that you don’t pay her enough attention and files for divorce. Guess who can claim she “sacrificed her career,” that she’s the kids’ primary caregiver (at least superficially) and who will make out like a bandit during the divorce?