The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you’ll be in the long run. When a guy disappears, it’s almost inevitable to feel a flood of self-doubt.Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would. You didn’t do anything wrong and you are “good enough” to have the relationship you want with a man you want, this guy just wasn’t it.Because it’s an uncomfortable conversation to have and he doesn’t want to have it. Also, men just aren’t as equipped to handle emotions and emotional situations as women are, so they avoid them. They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. Most men would rather walk over a bed of burning hot coals than tell a girl to her face they’re not into her. And most of the time, they will reason that the girl is probably on the same page so there is no need to reach out.I’m tired to talking about why he vanishing, many times i talked but he keep vanishing and come back. Bcs if he love me he will make me important, and keep in touch with me no matter how busy he is, no matter how much he travels and no matter how much he has going on in his life. I told him i knew he was never going to contact me again.
over a week ago we had an amazing outdoor activity. So we spent that weekend training, and we had lunch and laughs afterwards.I know it’s hard to accept, especially if you really liked this guy, but you really do need to just trust that it’s for the best.Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you anyway? You want to be with a guy who can’t believe his luck that a girl like you would choose him! He may have left you, don’t let him take your dignity with him.If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!He wouldn’t have come up with a list of reasons to never see or speak to you again, and proceed to never see or speak to you again.Try to keep your ego out of your relationships as much as possible. As time works its magic, the best thing you can do is stay as busy as possible.