What the best first message on a dating site

If you despaired of ever meeting a woman who loved football (even if you question her choice of team), say it.The easiest way to start a conversation with anyone new is to ask a question, so include one.I know some mention of something specific on their profile would be good but the guys who are good at this must at least has some set templates that they can riff or improvise on. There's so much variation in personalities that every chic may react differently. It's the only way you separate yourself after you qualify on her acceptable looks scale. Party slut- Here's where being suggestive in your messages plays very well. Artsy- Off-beat humor works very well for this category.Some girls respond well to complimentary openers, some don't. They usually have longer profiles, so look for something for an original joke.If it’s just their dazzling smile or their sparkly blue eyes, that’s fine!If their profile made you laugh out loud in the middle of Tesco, say it.I don't have any "proven" first messages, but one of my friends is successful and he just writes, "hey" or "sup" in his first message. I'm black and the majority of the women on each site weren't. However, if you're doing mass messaging like I do then you simply can't take the time do break down each girl's profile unless you want to make an afternoon out of it.

Create something that’s witty and warm and demonstrates you’ve read their profile, as opposed to just flicking through their photos. Research has shown that people warm towards hearing their own name in conversation.

I'm not going to say these lines always work, but I don't think any line does.

Girl's who visit your profile are much more inclined to want to meet, because they clicked on you for a reason (i.e.

She had like 5-6 lines total on OKC but it doesn't matter.

Here it is: Now, when a girl visits your profile before you check theirs out I always send: "Hey!

Just gets things going in a more interesting way than "hey".

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