Even though I might risk getting one or two hate comments by saying the truth, I want to say it anyway: Whenever someone told me that the girl I dated was only together with me because she hated herself and her race, it was another black girl who said that, sometimes even close friends.If my friends would say such things behind my back I would look out for new friends.And no, just because I am also into Asian girls doesn’t mean that I despise black women.During the year that I spent studying in the UK I dated two extremely gorgeous dark-skinned women.Through conversations with the female friends of the girls I dated I also found out that many of them while they gaze a after a black girl who would never admit who she is really attracted to.There are in fact reasons why black girls write about how much they love white guys in anonymous forums and Facebook groups, but why only a handful of them are brave enough to upload a picture with their white boyfriend.Let’s have a look at why there are still so many white guys who wonder if they have a chance with black girls, while the African girls who are secretly into them are too shy to even look at them. Whenever I dated a black girl I heard those accusations.
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One of those reasons are the misconceptions that our society has about black girls who decide to date white guys.
Unfortunately, a lot of beautiful black women have been conditioned by those lies and started to believe them.
You should be proud of yourself for ignoring the misconceptions and for going for what you really want.
A lot of the misconceptions that I am going to talk about in the following lines can also be directly used to answer the question “ but that’s fuel for another article. That’s why they try to increase their self-confidence by dating a white guy. That’s why they would do everything to end up marrying a white guy.
I don’t know why but for some reason a lot of people, especially old black people, tend to believe that all black women must naturally be attracted to black guys and ONLY black guys.