“Treatment for this pattern of behavior tends to be longer as the related thoughts and behaviors are ingrained over many years since childhood,” Martinez says.
There are also 12-step based support groups like Co-Dependents Anonymous that can help people overcome their codependency.
“It can manifest between parents and children, siblings, and even work colleagues,” she says." data-reactid="25"Codependency outside of romantic relationships isn’t uncommon, Erika Martinez, Psy D, a licensed psychologist in Miami, tells Yahoo Health.
“It can manifest between parents and children, siblings, and even work colleagues,” she says.
She's slightly less jaded about marriage in real life: On the show, Whitney takes issue with societal pressures to marry her longtime boyfriend because she's afraid of walking down the aisle after watching her mom and her dad each suffer through three failed marriages.
Although Cummings really did witness three divorces by the time she was 15, she joked that these days, her faith in marriage usually coincides with the cover of magazine.
“I thought it meant you were in a bad relationship with someone else, when it really means you’re in a bad relationship with yourself.”Cummings says the term is misused, noting that a person who is codependent can’t tolerate the discomfort of others.“I couldn’t say no to save my life,” Cummings wrote.
“I even found myself in sexual situations I had no interest in.
" for comedic effect and later jokingly yelled at D'Elia to get a haircut. TV Whitney isn't so raunchy, but neither is the real Whitney: The fictional Cummings' softer side is much more apparent from the get-go.But there are different levels of codependency and the condition is not always dysfunctional, Rosenberg says.However, he adds, there’s a difference between saying “you didn’t need to do that!She's not as loud in real life: OK, that one might be a little bit of a stretch.In the pilot episode of the series, a stranger identifies Whitney as the loud one and the comedian proved she had no qualms about speaking up during the panel.Despite her well-known raunchy roast persona, Cummings insists she is actually closer to the character than most would think. "There's another big dimension to her," added executive producer Betsy Thomas, who called the real Cummings a marshmallow.